How to Seduce a Virgo Man

© December 2010 by Fabienne Lopez

zodiac virgo sign


You Need a Plan!

You want to seduce a Virgo man? Not sure how to go about? You need a strategy and a plan. Below some advice on how to understand, attract and keep the sign.

Virgo Man Personality

Some basic astrological keywords will help you understand this sign and what will make him pay attention to him.

  • responsible, sensible, logical, analytical, highly discriminating,
  • careful planner, precise and punctual, dedicated, perfectionist,
  • critical, health conscious, introverted, observant, helpful,
  • reliable, precise, economic, industrious, modest, diligent,
  • helpful, fastidious, sharp, clever, dexterous, reliable, sensible,
  • down-to-earth, attentive, thrifty, organized, health conscious,
  • worrier, service-oriented, humble, perfectionists, shy.

virgo mythology

How to attract a Virgo

Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the Messenger of the Gods, same as Gemini. It gives you a clue to an important aspect of the Virgo man’s nature. He  wants to have their mind seduced first. You have to be intellectually stimulating (as opposed to being a good conversationalist as in the case for wanting to seduce a Gemini) for a Virgo to notice you.

At the same time, you have to show him that you have your head on your shoulders. Drama Queens need not to apply.

Two others things you will to keep in mind:

1)  Virgo can be very critical, so your character needs to first pass muster as far as his standards are concerned before he can show any interest in you.

2)  And you have to be understanding of his need for perfectionism.

After Hello

If you are interested in a Virgo man, ask a mutual friend to introduce both of you. He is not the type to take the first step. Nor is he the type to fall in love at first sight.

If he decides to take out on a date, be punctual, show good manners (especially table ones), be poised and witty. More than any other sign, a Virgo appreciates a clever joke and even more, a clever repartee. They will prefer Johnny Carson’s ad-libbing that his ten minutes monologue.

First Moves

Keep the conversation initially on an intellectual level rather emotional, at least until he is comfortable being with you. Start seducing them only AFTER this initial stage is over, because Virgo men are very cautious about forming relationships. It may take them a while before they show their feelings. So, the advice here is: Be Patient.

You have to show him you are in for the long haul and have no intention of making him jealous.

As a first date, take him to a business-trade show or home-department store sale where he can look at all the time and labor-saving home appliances.

Keeping Him Seduced

Be prepared to accept his annoying habits, including the fact that he is a workaholic.

Virgo has a reputation for being perfectionist.  This need for perfectionism  probably stems from their need for security. So, the key to keep them is to help them loosen a bit and realize that their own “imperfections” are okay. Which only make them feel comfortable about their own insecurities and imperfections. The end result is a man who is committed to the relationship.

If you follow the above you should not have trouble getting cozy with your Virgo man.

Good luck and let me know how your seduction strategy went!

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About Fabienne Lopez

Astrologer, Blogger, Life-Coach. My mission is to help you discover, develop and nurture your creativity no matter what transit you are going through.
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3 Responses to How to Seduce a Virgo Man

  1. Simon says:

    As a Virgo man, I wanted to add my two cents.

    It’s true, don’t rush things emotionally. Keep it light. Wait for Virgo man to make the move, because he is usually very picky, make sure he is into you. If you make the move and he is not into you, it can be awkward.

    Be prepared to have distance. He may distance himself, emotionally or otherwise, once in a while, to analyze and reorganize his feelings about you. Don’t take it personally and be prepared to be alone during that time.

    Most likely, he will test you, albeit unintentionally. Just be yourself. He will smell phoniness five thousand miles away, so keep it real, whether good or bad.

    Don’t count on him buying you lots of expensive stuff, well, unless he earns millions, or has other aspects in his chart. He will listen to you.

    Also, keep it interesting, stimulating, sensually. He likes new things so keep it fresh, and clean. Other Earth signs are a really good match for Virgo. Earth signs really understand each other and are usually misunderstood by other signs.

    • Fabienne Lopez says:


      Thank you so much for taking the time to express your experience about being a Virgo Man! I appreciate your gesture and also want to welcome you to our community. I would agree with pretty much all of what you said specially with the waiting for him to make the first move. As an Aries sun I rushed into things and did not wait. But then, I did not know astrology at the time. :)

  2. maricia says:

    please help virgo men ima sagittarious and i will be patient
    we have one thing in commnon
    and he asked for my name and he like a pice of art i made
    but now what do i do next should i just wait give me tips on how to secude him more

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