© December 2010 by Fabienne Lopez
You Need a Plan!
You want to seduce a Virgo man? Not sure how to go about? You need a strategy and a plan. Below some advice on how to understand, attract and keep the sign.
Virgo Man Personality
Some basic astrological keywords will help you understand this sign and what will make him pay attention to him.
- responsible, sensible, logical, analytical, highly discriminating,
- careful planner, precise and punctual, dedicated, perfectionist,
- critical, health conscious, introverted, observant, helpful,
- reliable, precise, economic, industrious, modest, diligent,
- helpful, fastidious, sharp, clever, dexterous, reliable, sensible,
- down-to-earth, attentive, thrifty, organized, health conscious,
- worrier, service-oriented, humble, perfectionists, shy.
Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the Messenger of the Gods, same as Gemini. It gives you a clue to an important aspect of the Virgo man’s nature. He wants to have their mind seduced first. You have to be intellectually stimulating (as opposed to being a good conversationalist as in the case for wanting to seduce a Gemini) for a Virgo to notice you.
At the same time, you have to show him that you have your head on your shoulders. Drama Queens need not to apply.
Two others things you will to keep in mind:
1) Virgo can be very critical, so your character needs to first pass muster as far as his standards are concerned before he can show any interest in you.
2) And you have to be understanding of his need for perfectionism.
If you are interested in a Virgo man, ask a mutual friend to introduce both of you. He is not the type to take the first step. Nor is he the type to fall in love at first sight.
If he decides to take out on a date, be punctual, show good manners (especially table ones), be poised and witty. More than any other sign, a Virgo appreciates a clever joke and even more, a clever repartee. They will prefer Johnny Carson’s ad-libbing that his ten minutes monologue.
Keep the conversation initially on an intellectual level rather emotional, at least until he is comfortable being with you. Start seducing them only AFTER this initial stage is over, because Virgo men are very cautious about forming relationships. It may take them a while before they show their feelings. So, the advice here is: Be Patient.
You have to show him you are in for the long haul and have no intention of making him jealous.
As a first date, take him to a business-trade show or home-department store sale where he can look at all the time and labor-saving home appliances.
Keeping Him Seduced
Be prepared to accept his annoying habits, including the fact that he is a workaholic.
Virgo has a reputation for being perfectionist. This need for perfectionism probably stems from their need for security. So, the key to keep them is to help them loosen a bit and realize that their own “imperfections” are okay. Which only make them feel comfortable about their own insecurities and imperfections. The end result is a man who is committed to the relationship.
If you follow the above you should not have trouble getting cozy with your Virgo man.
Good luck and let me know how your seduction strategy went!
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