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Want to seduce an Cancer Man? Not sure how to go about? Below some advice on how to understand, attract and keep your Cancer man happy.
Cancer Man Personality
To be successful in your seduction strategy you need to understand your Cancer man. Below some keywords to keep them in mind when dealing with your Cancer man.
- Moody, sensitive, loyal, dependable, caring, responsible,
- Adaptable, responsive, clingy, introverted, reserved, insecure,
- emotional, moody, sympathetic, security-conscious, prudent,
- retentive, domestic, maternal, protective, quiet, calm,
- imaginative, conscientious, traditionalist, purposeful.
Now that you know what motivates him, how do you get his attention?
First of all, be there for him. And secondly, do a lot of mothering. Fuss about him. Worry about him. The purpose of all this mothering and fussing is to make him feel safe. He is always looking for affection and closeness because his main goal is to have a stable relationship.
A Cancer man is a sensitive soul who can be easily hurt in his feelings when he senses disloyalty from somebody he loves. Therefore, if you can provide a sense of security for him, he will be yours.
The Cancer man is courteous and polite, a romantic that dreams about security, family and praises traditional values. Because he is ruled by the moon, your cancer man can run hot and cold in quick succession. One second he is passionate and, the other, cautious, closed off.
Bring him baked goods, preferably homemade. It can be anything as long as it shows that you took the time to make it for him.
Show some cleavage. Cancer rules the breasts in astrology, therefore, he is the ultimate ‘boob” man.
Be considerate of his feelings. Above all, be accepting of his swing moods but also be concerned “You sound like something is bothering you. What’s wrong?”
Be family oriented and have a healthy respect for tradition.
Learn how to read the cancer moods and understand what your Cancer man needs from you at that moment. If he seems grumpy, he might be trying to tell you that he feels unwanted and wants support; if he is being argumentative, it’s probably because he feels unacknowledged, so praise him; if he gets close to you, he wants reassurance and TLC.
Keeping Him Seduced
You need to know how he feels about his mom, because that will tell you how he is going to treat you. This is true of all men, but with Cancer it’s amplified to the nth degree. If he thinks his mother is Mary Magdalene, be prepared to worship her. Become his mother’s best friend, ally, buddy, etc…
If he has difficulties with his mother, beware and think hard before engaging in a relationship with him.
Learn to cook like his mother, learn all his favorite recipes and change nothing, so that your cooking tastes just like hers. That’s because he loves his mother’s cooking best. And understand that of course her cooking will always be better than yours.
Love children and be prepared to have a big family. Be prepared to reassure him of your love and affection often. Cancer man needs a lot of affection. So, if this is your natural tendency, shower him with tons of affection, tenderness and caring.
If you follow the above you should not have trouble getting cozy with your Cancer man. Of all the 12 signs, Cancer is the easiest to have a stable relationship with, if this is what you want.
Good luck and let me know how your seduction strategy went!
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